I have just had a lovely weekend away At Moeraki and I have done a lot of thinking about our school. I arrived home a little too late to get to Top Schools but was pleased to receive the message that our year 4 team had won and Waimataitai had one over all. The comment was made what great groups of kids and superb parents. A really good example of team players and support for kids and family.
Last Thursday we had our first student learning conferences for the year. These are always a highlight for me as I really enjoy seeing everyone being excited about them. I know the staff enjoy these too, despite it being a long day they come in for their light tea buzzing about how proud they are of the kids and how much they appreciate the parents interest and follow up. It is amazing to think that for years we have met with parents without the student and thought this would help the child's learning. All it does really is undermine the child and their ownership of their learning. I am not saying there is not a place for parents to meet with the teacher without the child present as there certainly are occasions when this is appropriate but if we are talking about supporting children's learning we need the three parts to the partnership there; the learner , the parents or whanau and the school.
We are really trying to instill in our students the fact that learning goes on everywhere not just school but in every experience we have and that is where parents are the vital support. All the conversations that go on at home while you are eating at the table or drying the dishes or driving the car all reinforce our learning and our understanding of the world we live in. One of the things we are hoping to see happen is that the concept of our Wai learner being a happy, motivated, reflective, respectful, curious team player is also seen at home. School is only one contributor to children's learning and parents have a huge role by taking an interest in whatever their child is doing or showing enthusiasm for.
We are all in this together.
I spent Friday afternoon learning how to fill in the cricket log whilst our boys Milo cricket team played ST Josephs Timaru. What a great team - I was really impressed with the way they were so supportive of each others efforts with positive comments and put ups. They were disappointed that they lost but they were able to see what they had done well and acknowledge that and also identified some areas they could work on. Very reflective and admirable qualities.
I think the most rewarding part of my job is seeing kids really motivated and engaged and proud of their achievements and when you have watched grow up to see these fine young people it is very encouraging for the future. After all it is in our hands, all of us.